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« Reply #15 on: January 21, 2008, 01:50:42 PM »

That's a perfect recap!
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« Reply #16 on: January 21, 2008, 07:19:42 PM »

Quote from: "MissBonnie"
(also not BDSM related) My, just turned 7 year old son has a disability it effects his speech, He gets treated by strangers like he is deaf. People yell at him or treat him like he has some sort of brain injury and doesn't comprehend what is being said when all the while he is a very smart little boy who just can't make himself understood or heard, he chooses, to just not talk because of this, and signs when he wants to be understood. I admire your vow of silence Femelle.. the reactions you'd get from the general public..I've seen first hand, how hard it  is for my son, when he really wants to say some thing but his goal of remaining silent is more important.


It's definitely frustrating. I feel like a dog trying to tell my owner that I want to be let out.

Happy birthday to your son Smiley I feel bad that he has to go through that.. I'm doing it now at 24 and it's frustrating, I can't imagine how it must be for a 7 year old, especially knowing how mean kids can be to each other.
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« Reply #17 on: January 21, 2008, 07:25:41 PM »

Quote from: "quesera"
Unrelated to BDSM, but in graduate school I took a seminar in disability law.  Each of us had to choose a disability to emulate  for 24 hours, during which time we were encouraged to go out in public and do normal routines.  I spent the day using a wheelchair, and a friend and I decided to go to Boston and do some shopping and go to dinner, use the subway, etc.

The experience had its intended effect.  I became very aware of both structural and attitude obstacles.  Both are everywhere.  I'm very appreciative of the opportunity that class gave me.


That class sounds very beneficial. I like that you decided to get out and about. I can easily see how some people would stick closer to home and not be especially active. I wish everyone would take it.
 
In fact, this experience has made me think about emulating other disabilities. Though it would be hard to block out sound, I might try next for actual deafness for a day or two. Over a weekend I would like to block my eyesight also.

I spent some time on crutches when I was in the Army, and also about 10 years ago. They're certainly irritating but I wouldn't consider them disabling (I had to "run" down three flights of stairs to make it to formation...I usually made it but once I was written up for being late!!) A wheelchair would be great if I could get my hands on one. I'd also like to try performing normal activities without the use of one arm.
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