Age and BDSM

[Thorney]

About 22 years ago , in another connection, Mrs. Thorney and I had psychological examinations, and I have copies of the questionnaire we filled out. So it is not just memory that at that time we both reported having intercourse 10 to 14 times a week.

     Right now she is nearly 84, I'm 63, and we are down to 4 to 7 times a week.  It takes a quite a bit more tinkering with medication to keep her tissue flexible and my prostate behaving.  And since her badly broken arm last summer (mugging) not as many positions work well.  

     On the other hand, our kinky repertoire has increased over the years, and we still enjoy playing together multiple times a day -  foot rubs, cock licking, confiscating panties, and lots of other stuff.  It seems pretty clear that there are a lot of sexplay possibilities (more in the kinky line than not) that we are likely to continue actively even if health ever rules out conventional intercourse.

Thorney

[teddylover]

Is there an ideal age for this activity?

For many men (and a few women) we claim that BDSM was a childhood fantasy.

For women of my generation (preindustrial and in my case precambrian) most of them didn't DO anything about it until their late 30's or early 40's when the kids spent more time out of the house and they had more time to be women rather than moms.

To be fair, they also did not have internet available to them at earlier ages, and anything that was associated with "sex" in those days was in the stereotypical "dirty" (in more than one sense of the word) bookstore in the seedy part of town. Most MEN stayed away from these places and any woman who showed up within 500 feet of the premises was assumed to be selling a service.

Mrs. Mule and I used to run a home health care business. She told me about two of her patients -- lesbian lovers -- in their 80s. This was back in the 1980s -- they couldn't be lesbian lovers -- sex did not exist before 1968. It was invented by our generation. It's still a mystery how procreation happened before then.

One tends to think that old people are sexless. I admit that I used to think that way but now that I am an "old people" myself, I see that it is not so.

So what are your perceptions of geriatric kinksters?

I have found that olderman are the naughtest and they can do it all night long.

[fuexula09]

Looks like a good start to the thread knot.

I will be posting various pics of my little one and possibly others too here.

I would also like to be able to discuss the various forms of BDSM and to explain to those that dont understand it what we find so enjoyable about out particular form of BDSM.  There are many, many different forms and I feel that people who dont understand what were all about may be able to ask and to the best of my ability I will answer what I can. 

Hope too that others who are interested in other areas of BDSM will help with this side of things?

DM