Is it really possible?

[peterlennon]

Hi everyone - i thought i would introduce myself. I hope this post isn't too long or boring.

I have a question i would like to ask as well. Is there any real chance of finding a dominant caring woman, or is it a billion to one shot?

I am a forty year old man who lives near Newcastle in the north east of England. , 5'8" with an average build and greying balding hair. I am a professional man who is well respected at work. In terms of hobbies I have written a couple of manuscripts and came close to publishing them though that is still a work in progress and I am continuing to write. I enjoy reading, films, TV shows such as Law and Order, The West Wing and Crossing Jordan. Eating out is something I enjoy along with walks in nature and cultural and historical attractions.My musical tastes are quite ecliptic and include Sinatra, Abba, the Beatles, Rod Stewart and Country.I have a small circle of friends, mainly family and am honest, loyal and caring. I am interested in the state of society and have a well developed social conscience. Political I edge toward the Conservatives, but may well be a Democrat if I lived in the US.Sexually I am inexperienced and have only ever had a few girlfriends, only one of which was for any real length of time - 5 years. I have been single for 5 years and am not and have not been interested in one night stands. Loud nightclubs and pubs are not really my scene neither which at least in part explains why I have not found anyone recently.The things I find most attractive are a husky voice and a slimmer build - though personality is always the key thing. I would like to meet someone who would be prepared o accept my family are important to me and for that reason be keen to portray me and our relationship in a positive light. Equally although I have submissive tendencies I can also be quite determined so there is an enigma there.In terms of fantasy I would really like to be controlled for long periods of time. To return home on Friday night and be made to strip and serve. It is problematic but I am attracted to the idea of being humiliated in front of my partner’s girlfriends and would I think like them to know that she controls me - up to and including being humiliated, stripped and even punished in front of them. The punished is another thing I fantasize about. I would like to be ball busted, spanked and lead about and 'hurt' in imaginative ways - but wow does that sound weird! I'm not really though and I wonder if I will find anyone who is loving; caring and yet who enjoys such things

is it possible?

[quesera]

bbenn did.

:-)

And he's a 42 year old, average looking (to most people -- gorgeous to me of course!), intelligent guy with ordinary tastes and hobbies, an ordinary job, and no great amount of money, fame, or pizzazz.

We just clicked very well in lots of ways, not the least of which was the dominant-submissive match and our kinky interests.

We met online, and lived 1500 miles apart when we first started chatting.

So yes, it is possible.

You don't sound weird at all.  You actually sound very nice.

[RichardEvansLee]

Plenty of people manage to pull it off. And you sound like you'd have better luck than most men with similar desires. Not that such searches can't be long and frustrating.

[lavender scorpion]

Yes, yes, yes it's possible.  Even probable!