Well after a year of searching, a few important discoveries, a bout of insecurity and doubt around Christmas-time and hundreds of profile responses later, I finally am in the situation I should have been in months ago - several well behaved submissives competing for my attention
Unfortunately I'm also pretty busy with the band doing yet another music video and I'm just not used to having so much stuff on, but I'm arranging to meet them one at a time within the next three weeks.
Of course, none of them may turn up, but at least a few of them seem very serious and experienced enough not to be game players.