Hello EmoSlave, I'm older than you...and No I'm not your Mummy, but I do have some advise.
There are better places to try make contacts. Fetish Lore is not a dating site, Fetish Lore is for conversation and discussion. Why not get involved, make friends and start a discussion about your interest who knows you may just find someone to talk too

Fetish lore covers many kinks and fetishes from all walks of life.
Now be a good boy and join in

or we will delete!