Fetish Lore

[Sensual Sadist]

I consider using a strap-on to fuck my male creature - something I've never tried before.

I never thought this would be anything I’d consider, and it’s certainly idiosyncratic territory for a pre-operative transsexual. I’m still not sure how it will feel because I’ve never had the desire to use my… whatever-it-is to screw anyone.

This is why using a strap-on makes it different. Since I enjoy using my body rhythmically and doing intense things to my lover I think it has the potential to be good for us, and I’m excited that it may lead to some very deep experiences.

The fact that it’s an object makes it more impersonal and objectifying for him as well as more appropriate for me, which gives the act a powerful symmetry. Since he’s expressed an interest and wondered if it will be an avenue of submission for him I feel like I should try it at least once.

[roo-roo]

Strap-on play, especially when combined with t&d, can be an amazing experience. It's a real head trip to know that she can penetrate me but I can't penetrate her; it's a role-reversal from "normal" sex. Incredibly hot overall.

[maymay]

[RichardEvansLee]

[maymay]

[RichardEvansLee]

[Coldfemale67]

[roo-roo]

Strap-on sex can be personal or impersonal (or anywhere in between) depending on the vibe between the participants. It is what you make of it. I enjoy both "versions" of it; they're different flavors, but both are sexy in their own way.

[Myles]

Strapon play is something that's near and dear to my heart, especially in combination with bondage, t&d, and after a spanking. Any penetration of my submissive, whether it's fingers or strapon, is a very heady feeling. The sounds he makes are erotic, the visual stimulus and role-reversal are very exciting, and most importantly for me, being in control of how much he takes, how hard, how long, etc. is what really is the icing on the cake.

The act itself is pleasurable, but his willingness to submit to my desires regardless of how much he enjoys it is breathtaking. It's not about humiliation, in my mind. It's all about his eagerness to yield to me.
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[Fledgingwings]

[Sensual Sadist]

Thanks for all these excellent responses. I think my head is going to fall off now.

[teased4days]

We just started using a dildo to penetrate me. We've always had a bunch of toys for her.

For me, it's a pleasurable thing coupled with a little humiliation. I mean I really like it, but it puts me in such a submissive place. So far, we only have two toys that fit the bill. One is kind of small, which is pleasurable and isn't all that invasive. The OTHER toy is 8 inches long and 2 inches around. It's probably too big, considering we only started using it on me a little over a week ago. Wifey can't take that one in her ass and is amazed that I can. There is pain, but pain and pleasure are kind of blended together in my head.

One of our next purchases will be a harness. We'd like something that can go inside her at the same time. We'll also need a dildo that's a tad smaller than the monster we already have. She's already told me that the big one will be reserved for punishment.

[MrsJen]

Being male and having a female take on the role of the penatrator is one thing that turns me on. I have introduced Mrs Jen to the thought of her penetrating my ass and having her way with me. Let’s just say that she loves it and wants to do it more often then none........lol. She loves the fact that she can watch me as I fuck my own ass and when she gets to help push the toys in my ass.

I can say that being the penetrated is a big submissive role, since you really do not have a choice or say as to how they want you and how they are going to penetrate you. I love it


Mrs Jens Toy

[maymay]