Fetish Lore

[Mistress160]

So the idea of feminization doesn't do much for you, but the idea of being FORCED ... of your lover or Mistress ORDERING you to wear her lingerie, or those cheap and tacky frilly panties, or that cute bra she made you buy (in public, delighted shudder)...

Forced feminization has a huge following. My Forced Feminization group at www.MyDungeonSpace.com has the largest membership of the nearly 100 groups on the site, while stats show the forced feminization pages of my blog are by far the most visited. Its a very popular subject.

So tell us about your own fantasies ... your own experiences... in return, I'll share a little about the forced feminization program I have put solipsist through since August...

I must admit forced feminization previously was not a kink of mine, however my own responses fed off sol's, and we have found in practicing it an unexpected source of great humiliation / amusement, lol. From panties we moved to garter belts and stockings worn daily under work clothes, from publicly purchasing his first bra in a crowded mall to buying a French Maid's outfit in a fetish store in San Francisco. The latter brought a whole new component into our D/s relationship - service - which has become a regular part of our lifestyle, my maid undertaking daily duties as well as penances for tasks not properly completed.... This entire feminization program has been recorded - with (much to sol's mortification) photos - on my personal blog....

But how has all this fitted in with solipsist's own deep desires? Sol writes:

"In my 20s I started reading fem/dom porn in a big way, and really got off on many of the stories involving feminization. I experimented with cross dressing occasionally when my girlfriend (now Wife) Mistress 160 was away, and while I found it kind of interesting, I decided that this must be something that I could enjoy in fantasy, but it wasn't anything that would work for me in reality.

"I have also had an interest in wearing g-strings, and had bought the occasional pair made for guys, but found them really uncomfortable. Until one day I tried on a pair I had bought for Ms 160 (who doesn't like wearing them), and found them really comfortable. So I gradually accumulated a drawer full of women's g-strings, most of which would pass for guys if you didn't read the label, and again while some of the fabrics were nice it did nothing much for me sexually.

"Until one day when Ms 160 found herself with some time to kill in a local mall, and bought me 3 pairs of very girly, frilly panties. She showed them to me as I was driving and I nearly went off the road, and blushed almost the same colour as the pink polka-dot g-string. So I've discovered that if I'm dressed in very feminine things, with my Wife here to see and occasionally burst out laughing, feminization is deliciously humiliating and turns me on immensely.

"So I now have a drawer full of tasteless girly panties selected for me by Mistress, and she chooses which ones I will wear each day. I have a babydoll nightie and a floral apron that I have worn to do vacuuming and cooking. I now own a couple of garter belts and She has started me wearing stockings under my jeans. Wearing stockings under jeans is quite a unique sensation - you are aware of them constantly, brushing against the denim, the garter belt shifting on your waist. Legs unusually warm up to mid thigh, and then cool above. The clips are visible under the jeans if you know what you're looking for, and I feel constantly self-conscious. And beware crossing your legs, in case a glimpse of stocking is visible above your socks.

"And today after we bought a new garter belt at our local markets (to replace a badly made one that dangled the stockings around my knees LOL), she made me change into the new one while we were parked on the street, with busy pedestrian traffic all around. I felt deliciously submissive, and proud that I was unhesitatingly exposing myself to potential ridicule merely for Her amusement".
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[maymay]

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For me, it's simply another form of humiliation that I find erotic. For me, that most likely comes from the pressure men feel from society to not be feminine.

Of course, her reaction is probably the biggest part of it. When she laughs or pushes me further than I'd like to go, it's an incredible turn-on.

I'm not sure it'd have the same appeal to me if we did it every day, or even every week though.

[longbob]

Hi all, Forced fem for me is a fantasy Ive had all my life and it will always remain just that. The 2 important aspects for me are firstly the humiliation of being femmed and secondly the end result. The first I would welcome but the end result would be terrible - I know I wouldnt be such a pretty sight. For a lot into this its not that important -process is all. That is one of the great things about the cyber world - we can live out our fantasies and read of others experiences without having to fit the needed physical criteria. If you cant see me you can make me into Linda Evangelista, and I would be delighted with your efforts.
I cant believe I got up enough nerve to post this LB

[Mistress160]

Well Done
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[solipsist]

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solipsist wrote:

[solipsist]

*blush*

(Mistress is laughing gently)
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[longbob]

I find it so interesting how we all have different aspects of force fem that we enjoy. I have a hair fetish, and the forced fem of hair is of utmost importance to me. Not a wig, but hair styled. I think this comes from witnessing such an incident at school once. Also clothes are not important as much as make up. To be helpless and have hair and makeup done is my greatest fantasy. Diversity enriches!

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When Pete and I used to play this game, makeup was at the top of his list. Never played with hair. But you're right feminization is a diverse thing.

Done, right, makeup on a man can be sexy too. It takes restraint. Put on lots and you get a very old whore or a clown. Of course, that may be what you have in mind.
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[longbob]

for me so much is in the application - to be helpless, tied, and have the makeup paraded before you, then to feel it going on all the time to the gentle but teasing comments of the Mistress and perhaps other women watching. Perhaps I'm more into the humiliation than the femmingLOL

[quietlisten]

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quietlisten wrote: